#MiddleburyCT #Fireworks #Pets #FourthofJuly
DEAR PAW’S CORNER: My brother-in-law has invited the whole family to his lakeside house for the Fourth of July, with a cookout and fireworks in the evening. My husband and I never go anywhere without our dog, Ranger, and while we want to attend, we know the fireworks will upset our dog. Should I tell our in-laws to cancel the fireworks part of the cookout? – April H., Tavares, Florida
DEAR APRIL: You can certainly ask your brother-in-law to nix the fireworks but be prepared for a chilly reception to your request. Family dynamics can be difficult to navigate, and doubly so during big holidays that feature loud music, alcohol and fireworks. Consider some other options:
- Can you leave Ranger at home for a few hours to attend this party?
- Do you absolutely have to go? Will your relatives be hurt if you don’t attend?
- Are you able to have a calm conversation with your brother-in-law about fireworks and how stressful they are for pets?
- Could you make an appearance and then leave before the fireworks begin?
As a pet owner myself, I know how difficult the Fourth of July holiday can be for pets, especially in states where fireworks are sold legally. The explosions, even from a distance, can really stress them out. I’ve had these conversations with fellow pet owners. Most of them choose option number four: They attend parties in the afternoon to enjoy the cookout and leave before the fireworks start. That way, they can be at home to comfort their pets if any fireworks go off nearby. This may be the way for you to go. But you can also opt out of the party entirely. It’s your choice, made with Ranger’s health in mind.
Send your tips, comments or questions to ask@pawscorner.com.
© 2024 King Features Synd., Inc.
You must be logged in to post a comment.